Jidenna will tour Africa continent for a series of exclusive performances, album release parties and the filming of a BBC documentary, which will chronicle his homecoming journey to Nigeria.Speaking on the album, Jidenna says “The record as a whole represents all my experiences of the many worlds I’ve lived in and traveled through from Lagos to Los Angeles.Jidenna kicks off his trip to Africa in late August.Starting with Nigeria, Jidenna will host an exclusive album launch event in conjunction with TRACE TV, featuring a live performance at Hard Rock Café in Lagos; interviews with Nigeria’s leading radio stations and lifestyle publications; and Jidenna will begin filming an exclusive documentary, produced by BBC International and True Africa, about his journey back to his childhood home in Enugu.Then, Jidenna will travel to Johannesburg, South Africa for a promotional tour which will include interviews with leading radio stations and lifestyle publications; as well as an album launch party and a special showcase in conjunction with TRACE TV.
Friday, 12 August 2016
JIDENNA SIGNS GROUND BREAKING DEAL WITH THREE RECORD COMPANIES FOR HIS ALBUM "CHIEF OBI"
Tuesday, 7 June 2016
JAY Z AND BLUE IVY AT THE FCDAs TO SUPPORT BEYONCE
At last night’s CFDAs, Beyoncé, wearing a sparkly Givenchy tux and a generously brimmed hat, was honored as this year’s Fashion Icon. In a rare public speech, the Lemonade singer paid tribute to her mother, grandmother, and uncle—her very first designers.
“My mother and my uncle, God rest his soul, made all of our first costumes, individually sewing hundreds of crystals and pearls, putting so much passion and love into every small detail,” she said, adding: “My mother is fabulous and beautiful and she’s here tonight. My mother, my grandmother, and my uncle are always with me so I cannot fail. My mother actually designed my wedding dress, my prom dress, my first CFDA Awards dress, my first Grammy dress, and the list goes on and on.”
Tuesday, 10 May 2016
BEYONCE LOOKING SUPER FLY IN THE COMPANY OF HER HUSBAND AND A FAN IN THIS ANKARA
Save the cross-cultural effect of Bey’s off-day style, what is thrilling about this look is how relatable it feels.
Saturday, 2 April 2016
RIHANNA'S EXCLUSIVE UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL INTERVIEWS WITH VOGUE MAGAZINE
If you read parts of the following interview in Vogue’s April cover story, then is is a follow up to it. The interview took place on Super Bowl Sunday in the sprawling gothic home of Carlton Gebbia, whom fans of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills will remember as the “Celtic pagan witch” from season four. Rihanna had just flown in to L.A. for her cover shoot from Toronto, where the night before she and Drake wrapped the video for “Work.” Later in the week, she would present her Puma collection at New York Fashion Week. But on this sunny California afternoon, Rihanna arrived casually turned out, in a vintage Guess leather biker jacket, green Vetements sweatpants, and a Star Wars T-shirt.
For a Wiccan, Gebbia’s taste favored a surprising dose of Catholic iconography. Ornate iron crosses hung above doorways, framed paintings of saints ascended a staircase wall, and, in a vamp-red bar room, there was a dark-wood confessional booth. Rihanna and I spoke in the home theater. It was after 9:00 p.m., the shoot had wrapped, and two men in suits had just stopped by from the Recording Industry Association of America. After they left, Rihanna wandered into the theater and plopped down in one of several red leather recliners. A member of her team poured Dixie cups of Pinot Grigio.
I wanted to talk about Antifirst. The opening song, “Consideration,” sets the tone for the album. Was the process of recording it different in any way?
I just felt really connected to that recording. I felt like, if any recording could represent this album, whether it’s sonically, whether it’s the sound of my voice, whether it’s the attitude, whether it’s lyrically. The beat. Everything is so demanding, and it grabs your attention right away. And I felt like that was important, especially after such a long time between albums.
On “Higher,” we hear a completely different dimension to your voice. Can you tell me about recording that one?
We recorded that song at 4:00 in the morning. 4:00 to 5:00. We had finished recording a bunch of stuff, and it was the end of the night. It was pretty short. We just said, “You know what? Let’s just drink some whiskey and record this song.” And when I heard the song, I envisioned a drunk voicemail. You know he’s wrong, and then you get drunk and you’re like, “I could forgive him. I could call him. I could make up with him.” Just, desperate. [laughs]
You dropped “Work” first, obviously. There’s sort of a vocal variation in that song. I think one writer called it “post-language”—that flourish on the chorus. Did that just unfold in the studio?
Yeah. Because I felt like if I enunciated the words too perfectly, it would just not be the same attitude or the same sass. Because that’s how we speak in the Caribbean. It’s very broken and it’s, like, you can understand everything someone means without even finishing the words. This song is definitely a song that represents my culture, and so I had to put a little twist on my delivery.
And you’re coming from shooting the video for “Work,” right? What were you going for?
It was just supposed to be a dancehall party. Just like a party that we would go to in the Caribbean and just dance and drink and smoke and flirt and really just enjoy the music. It’s like when your favorite song comes on. And that was the moment that was captured in the video.
Um, Drake. I mean, Drake has a lot to offer. He’s very intelligent, and so I trust him a lot with his direction. Doing a collaboration with him, you know it’s going to be great. Everything he does is so amazing. He’s so talented that you kind of just trust that it’ll be right. And plus, we know each other, so I know that whatever he writes is going to be honest, and it’s going to make sense to where I’m at in my life. That’s the difference. We know each other.
Overall, it seems like the songs are slower and slightly more introspective and personal. Did you know that that’s what you wanted to do?
I didn’t really know what the sound of the album would be in the beginning. I knew what I wanted to feel. I didn’t quite know how I wanted to hear it, but I knew that I would know it when I felt it. And so I went through a host of songs—songs that I thought were big and songs that I thought were up-tempo and would make sense. In the end, I just gravitated toward the songs that were honest to where I’m at right now, and how I think. The things that I want to listen to. The things that I want to smoke to.
Were you getting bored of the formula?
Very much. Every time we’ve done an album, we’ve always stepped out a little bit. But this time, again, we spent so much time in between albums that I needed the music to match my growth. I didn’t want to get caught up with anything the world liked, anything the radio liked, anything that I liked, that I’ve already heard. I just wanted it to be me.
It seems bold considering the state of the industry, to double down on the risk-taking.
I always believed that when you follow your heart or your gut, when you really follow the things that feel great to you, you can never lose, because settling is the worst feeling in the world.
Settling makes you feel like a sellout. It makes you feel like a liar. It doesn’t make you feel like you believe anything you’re saying or singing or performing. If you’re performing music that is not who you are or where you’re at, it is painful. It’s painful for the performer and for the audience. And I didn’t want to be caught doing what I felt like would sell or do what I’ve done before. I needed to do what I believed in.
The press has been all over the place with the theory that it was leaked. Can you set the record straight about the rollout?
It did get leaked. Don’t think that’s up for question anymore. Everybody knows it got leaked. But luckily that did not hurt us.
You also announced the tour before dropping the album. You’re touring with Travis Scott. Creatively, why were you attracted to working with him?Well, when I go on tour, I like to bring people who can get the crowd excited. That’s why we got Big Sean in Europe. We also have The Weeknd. And Travis Scott. They are all really great performers. They know how to own the stage. And that’s really important before I come on. Because I want to come to a crowd that’s like [snaps fingers] in a great mood. They’re excited. They feel like they’re ready to party.
I want to ask you about signing on to release your music through Tidal. Why did you decide to release your music that way?
Well, a part of our plan was to stream or download the album exclusively for the first 24 hours, which was going to be done through a Samsung link that fans had to enter and redeem. And Samsung felt like the best machine for that was Tidal.
Artists seem to be going the streaming route more and more, right?
It’s true. Streaming is a really big market for me. We’ve been doing great in the streaming market, so it’s not something I want to alienate at all. Streaming counts now. They’re treating artists the way we deserve to be treated. So it’s not blindly—it’s not invisible sales or invisible streams or invisible listens or downloads.
Before it was just—it was robbing us. Before streaming, it was robbing artists. Robbing us of our sales. It’s free music. So now the free music counts. It is definitely going to make a big difference in the music industry. For a fact.
I wanted to ask you about “Bitch Better Have My Money.”
“Bitch Better Have My Money” just felt like something everybody can relate to, whether it’s in regards to money or not. There’s something about that attitude or that confidence, that level of discarding something. Because it’s also just very final. It’s a very final statement. That song can be taken in so many ways. You know? And hardly ever is it actually money. I mean, money’s pretty much the obvious thing. The nonobvious thing is somebody who’s just jocking you. You’re not paying them any attention. You’re minding your own business. And everything that comes out of them is targeted toward you. And so you just feel like—
You feel like at the end of the day, you might as well get paid for this shit. You know what I’m saying? It’s just a way to describe a situation. It’s a way to be in charge, to let people know that you’re all about your business.
I wanted to ask you if you get tired of people kind of pitting you against other women in this space. Like yesterday, with Beyoncé’s “Formation” coming out and everybody talking about the timing with Anti.
[Big laugh] Here’s the deal. You know what, it’s more relevant to the world. They somehow are so enthused by that. They just get so excited to feast on something that’s negative. Something that’s competitive. Something that’s, you know, a rivalry. And that’s just not what I wake up to. Because I can only do me. And nobody else is going to be able to do that.
So you just try to tune it out.
Especially with Anti. I went through so many emotions and roller coasters of feeling good, loving it, hating it, doubting myself, hating myself. “This is awful.” “I lost it.” “Wait, but I do love it still.” “But then—” And it’s like, no. Eventually you just need to know who you are. You know when something is you. You know when you love it and that’s the only thing that matters. When it comes to everybody else’s thing and their lane and their timing, I’m never doing anything intentional to, like, come after somebody. That will always be my biggest mistake or anybody’s biggest mistake if that’s their intention. So I just focus on my little project. That’s all I can handle. That’s a lot to handle. I can barely handle all of that.
Since you last spoke to Vogue, you’ve gotten even more experimental with fashion.
That’s funny. I’m like, really? I feel like I got more bummy.
Well, the CFDA dress! Was the CFDA dress a response to the “Free the Nipple” campaign and that Instagram situation?
I have always freed the nipple. It was never to get attention. Never sexual. Never in desperation. The bra just fucked up my sheer shirt. I just wanted to be perfect and that’s what I went with and I felt okay with that. And after a while, it became such a scandal and a “horrible role model” thing. It was a topic of discussion, and eventually other girls started defending me. And now there’s this whole “Free the Nipple” movement.
But CFDAs was the last time that I did that. I remember saying that day to my stylist and everybody in the room, hair and makeup, everyone—I was just like, “Now you see it. Tomorrow you won’t.” Because this is the last time. I can’t go any further than this. I’m barely there. So I said, “From here on, we’ll be back to clothes. Let’s just put clothes on. Even if I don’t want to. Make sure I put clothes on.” Because I don’t want people to think that I’m doing this on purpose.Okay, last bit. I want to run through the names of designers, and you tell me really quickly what you love about their clothes. Stella McCartney.
I love Stella. I loved her clothing and I thought they were flirty. She has a way of making women sexy without looking like they’re trying to be sexy, which is my favorite thing in life.
Alex Wang.
Alexander Wang is edgy. He’s ahead of the curve. He is always setting trends. Never following. And that makes me excited about his designs.
Olivier—he’s such a beautiful person inside. And I’m really proud of him for being such a young black man in this huge fashion industry and still being able to sell clothes and change a brand and put his thing on entertainment in the way that he has, where people die to get one of his dresses.
But CFDAs was the last time that I did that. I remember saying that day to my stylist and everybody in the room, hair and makeup, everyone—I was just like, “Now you see it. Tomorrow you won’t.” Because this is the last time. I can’t go any further than this. I’m barely there. So I said, “From here on, we’ll be back to clothes. Let’s just put clothes on. Even if I don’t want to. Make sure I put clothes on.” Because I don’t want people to think that I’m doing this on purpose.Okay, last bit. I want to run through the names of designers, and you tell me really quickly what you love about their clothes. Stella McCartney.
I love Stella. I loved her clothing and I thought they were flirty. She has a way of making women sexy without looking like they’re trying to be sexy, which is my favorite thing in life.
Alex Wang.
Alexander Wang is edgy. He’s ahead of the curve. He is always setting trends. Never following. And that makes me excited about his designs.
Olivier—he’s such a beautiful person inside. And I’m really proud of him for being such a young black man in this huge fashion industry and still being able to sell clothes and change a brand and put his thing on entertainment in the way that he has, where people die to get one of his dresses.
Raf is just a freak of nature. He’s like my soul mate when it comes to design. How can someone understand your mind like that? He’s so great at being twisted. He pushes the envelope. He’s past the envelope now. Past pushing the envelope. He’s making his own envelope.What about Vetements?
Love Vetements. It’s one of those brands that just blows your mind. It’s never going to be all the same thing in my closet. But with a brand like Vetements, you can have a leather skirt, a shirt and jacket to the ground, a T-shirt, a sweatsuit, a tailored skirtsuit. You literally can have every occasion of an outfit in one collection.
And then the last one is Victoria Beckham.
Oh! Love Victoria. I’ve only worn her a few times. Her sunglasses are really good. She knows how to snatch waists. Her dresses fit really well. Zac Posen, though, he’s the best at snatching waists. He’s legit. He knows how to make a woman’s body look great. Tom Ford knows how to make a woman a bad bitch.
Jean Paul Gaultier is king to me. And the other one—obviously, Dior. Dior is just—they’re timeless, they’re classic. But I also love that they’re never afraid to change. Never afraid to evolve and stay ahead of the times. I mean, the fact that Dior has done a Rasta collection. You think about that. It blows your mind that Dior would take a risk like that.
Wednesday, 9 March 2016
Wednesday, 2 March 2016
BEAUTY QUEEN JASMINE ANONA STUNNS IN PHOTO SHOOT FOR FANTASY EDITION OF VIVIAN LAM GLAMOUR MAGAZINE
The Reigning Face of Democracy Nigeria 2015/16. Queen Jasmine Anona who emerged the 1st Runner up during Face of Democracy Nigeria 3rd Edition at the Prestigious Transcorp Hilton Hotel Abuja on 24th oct 2015 is indeed a beautiful young woman with a great sense of fashion and style.
Queen jasmine Anona is the Face of Democracy Advocacy Nigeria 2015/2016. She is a 21 years old fresh Anthropology graduate from University of Ibadan. Jasmine Anona is a young entrepreneur,the CEO of Jasmine's Expressions and also the founder of emerald foundation which is built on helping the less privileged in the society.
Saturday, 27 February 2016
SHOULD YOU SELECT YOUR CHILDS GENDER THE DRAMA SURROUNDING CHRISSY TEIGEN'S IVF REVEALED
From the moment she announced her pregnancy on Instagram last fall, Chrissy Teigenhas remained refreshingly unfiltered about everything, including the in vitro fertilization techniques she and John Legend used to conceive. So on Wednesday, when the outspoken model revealed in an interview that she had picked her child’s gender with IVF—“Not only am I having a girl, but I picked the girl from her little embryo”—the sudden wave of Internet controversy must have caught her off guard.
Criticisms ranged from disappointment that Teigen would prefer a specific gender at all to accusations she and Legend had “thrown away” all the male embryos in pursuit of a girl. “I think I made a mistake in thinking people understood the process better than they do,” Teigen shared on Twitter. “Hard to explain such a complicated process here.”
It’s true that the science behind IVF, and gender selection in particular, is not often discussed. According to Jeffrey Steinberg, M.D., a leading IVF specialist, the 18-year-old technology of gender selection arose from the chromosomal analyses used to screen for genetic diseases. From there, doctors began offering genetic profiles to determine whether embryos were missing chromosomes, which makes them unviable, and, as a by-product of those tests, were able to inform couples of each embryo’s gender.
“If I’ve got a tool that can raise the chances of getting pregnant by 25 to 30 percent, I’m going to use the tool,” Steinberg explains. “The side effect of that tool is that you happen to learn gender.” When put that way, gender selection becomes a clinical offshoot of modern IVF for couples like Teigen and Legend, who screen their embryos to offset fertility issues. But there is a growing number of couples—some 70 percent of the patients in Steinberg’s practice—who use IVF specifically so that they can choose a son or a daughter, raising a question around a certain moral debate: Is that going too far? Clearly, it triggers stronger emotions than in vitro itself. “What is that difference though?” Teigen wrote on Twitter. “I’ve already created embryos with a doctor. Only after must it be random?”
She’s right, of course—once you’ve started IVF, the distinction becomes arbitrary, to some degree. But experts like Arthur Caplan, head of NYU Langone Medical Center’s division of medical ethics, argue that the moral issue is rooted on a basic principle. “It’s very simple: Gender is not a disease,” he says. “There’s nothing related to illness about it, so if you’re picking gender, you’re indulging a taste or preference, and normally medicine doesn’t respond to that.” Or, as Robert Klitzman, M.D., director of the masters of bioethics program at Columbia University and author of Am I My Genes?, points out, it raises questions about how much control we should have over another life. “Children should have an open future and be able to flourish, and if we plan too much what we want in a child, is that fair to the child?” he asks.
That being said, both Caplan and Klitzman make an allowance for couples like Teigen and Legend, who pursued IVF due to their infertility. “If you want to pick, you can pick, you’re there anyway,” Caplan says. “What I find ethically objectionable are people who use IVF to pick gender, which gets into sexism”—as well as for couples who might have had six girls and would like one boy. The chief concern lies with the future direction of genetic selection: a world in which traits like sexuality and left-handedness become selectable, or traits like albinism may be screened. What happens then? “You can see how the slope begins,” Caplan says. “Gender is not the only issue we’re going to have to wrestle with down the road.”
Going one step further, there are worries that wealthier individuals will be able to design their children to have highly specific traits like height, intelligence, and health, to the point where certain illnesses, like breast cancer, could exist only for lower-income families, who cannot afford the standard base cost of $12,000 for IVF and $4,000 for genetic screening. The fact that earlier this month the British government approved research on editing embryonic genes brings these seemingly futurist concerns screeching into the here and now. “We’re developing these technologies, and it’s important for people to be aware that these larger issues are going to become increasingly present,” Klitzman says. “This should be an opportunity to think about the larger issues, rather than this particular person.”
In other words, gender selection is a deeply complex matter that demands reflection and frank, open discussion—the kind that Teigen herself is advocating. “You’d be surprised at how many people you know go through this,” she said on Twitter. Now, if only they, too, would speak out.
Friday, 26 February 2016
MISS CURAÇAOS BANGING BODY ON DISPLAY....SHES QUITE SEXY THO
Wednesday, 3 February 2016
IS IT SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE TO VAPE IN PUBLIC
If there’s anything Leonardo DiCaprio loves more than a Citi Bike, it’s his vape. His trusty e-cigarette has accompanied him on yacht trips in St. Barth’s, while he scoped out the scene at Art Basel, and most recently served as his date at Saturday night’s SAG Awards. Now that Leo has taken his vape commitment to the next level, we’re confronted with a new etiquette question: Is it ever socially acceptable to vape indoors?
The proper protocol regarding electronic smoking has been up for debate ever since the rise of e-cigarette use. Before New York included e-cigarettes in its no-smoking ban (which prohibits use in bars, restaurants, offices, parks, and on beaches), rules on vaping varied from establishment to establishment. But does the public e-cigarette ban extend to private functions? In the past few years, vaping has been making the rounds at many glamorous circuits: Katy Perry was seen sharing a vape pen with Orlando Bloom at this year’s Golden Globes after-party; Sarah Silverman showed off her liquid pot pen during the Emmy’s red-carpet procession in 2014; and, back when she was still dating Michelle Rodriguez, Cara Delevingne puffed out tiny vapor rings while watching a Knicks game.
Since the smell emitted from e-cigarettes is much less offensive than cigarette smoke (many e-liquids come in bubblegum and fruity flavors), and because it leaves no lingering odor on clothing or hair, many believe e-lighting up at a public gathering is not a faux pas. “There’s a certain smugness to vaping,” said Chloe Malle, Vogue’s Social Editor. “I feel like people think, I’m allowed to do this, don’t try to stop me.” Freelance writer Tulio Espinosa admitted he recently used a vape indoors during a wedding: “I did it twice and people stared, but nobody really said anything.” At a recent art show opening in Brooklyn, the Pax, a small dry herb vaporizer that looks like something that could have been designed by Apple, was casually being passed around the crowd. “What is it with this thing?” asked one of the attendees. “I keep seeing everyone with these in Chelsea.”
“Until [vaping] becomes ubiquitous, people are going to be unsure or nervous about where they can do it,” explained Lizzie Post, who shares her great-great-grandmother Emily’s penchant for doling out social advice and currently hosts a weekly podcast called Awesome Etiquette. “If it’s going to be distracting at all, that’s when I say it’s time to go somewhere else,” she said. “I don’t know what was going on at the moment Leo pulled [his vape] out, but my guess is, all the cameras turned straight to him, and whatever was going on onstage was completely missed.”
Eviana Hartman, a co-owner of Tetra, a new website dedicated to “elevating the aesthetic of smoking,” agreed that it’s always in best taste to simply step outside. “Why wouldn’t you? You might even strike up a conversation with a stranger,” she said. “Or, if you’re trapped inside a Hollywood awards ceremony with no way out and paparazzi hovering, then duck.”
As more and more states legalize marijuana, the social conundrum only becomes trickier. “I’d say, as a general rule of thumb, it’s not polite to brazenly ingest psychoactive substances in public; it might make people uncomfortable,” Hartman said. But even in the most liberal of circumstances, Post believes it’s still important to check with the host first. “You don’t want to steal your host’s thunder by pulling out the vape at a party and getting everyone high,” she said. “At least let your host do that if he or she wants to!”
Friday, 29 January 2016
RIHANNA ANTI CLIMAX SATISFIED
I’ve tried many times and I just can’t do it. Maybe I’m cursed forever by that September ’84 Right On!, the one that questioned, “Who rules the music kingdom? Prince or Michael?” as the greatest Black pop forces of my wonder years stared from the cover, daring readers to choose one over the other. But as much of an obvious, indisputable icon as she is in her own right, I just can never consider Rihanna outside the context of Beyoncé. (On the flip, I contemplate Bey without Rihanna just fine.) Anti—Rihanna’s long-awaited eighth album, released last night exclusively on Tidal—flows long and strong, but that never stopped me from sizing it up against Beyoncé the whole time.
They’re Prince and MJ, the Beatles and the Rolling Stones, Janet and Madonna, MLK and Malcolm X. Okay, maybe not MLK and Malcolm X. But Rihanna is the Good Girl Gone Bad, and Beyoncé is the overachieving cheerleader pageant queen. They’re both feminist icons, but they’re also punk vs. pop.
As a male music lover, Beyoncé finally converted me to the Beyhive. It was the first of her five albums I cared to play more than once, not for the overall sexiness of the whole project, but (I swear) for the quality of the entire record from start to finish. Rihanna may never have taken this long between albums before. It stoked hopes that Anti would be that Rihanna masterpiece she never needed as a superstar in today’s post-millennial, singles-driven music industry. The album that (straight) guys could play and actually want to hear over and over. That needn’t be RiRi’s barometer for success, at all. That’s just what I was hoping for.
I feel like time will tell if I’ll ever want to hear Anti again, so I guess it’s not that masterpiece. But it’s damn good throughout, with a powerful quartet of ballads closing the album. Remember “Thank You” by the Brit singer Dido, famously sampled all up in Eminem’s “Stan”? Rihanna’s melodious vocals on “Never Ending” will bring that to mind (Dido gets a writing credit), crooning “it doesn’t have to feel so strange to be in love again” over plaintive guitar.
“Never Ending” brings on “Love on the Brain,” which sounds more rooted in 20th century musical arrangements than most of Anti up until that point. Instead of the album’s signature EDM atmospherics and unintelligible (or at least hard to decipher) lyrics, “Love on the Brain” brings Stax soul to the table, with male back-up singers responding to Rihanna like the Pips. “Must be love on the brain that’s got me feeling this way,” she sings. “It beats me black and blue but it f*cks me so good/And I can’t get enough.” Problematic? Very. Punk? Absolutely. But counter to most of Anti’s bad girl mood music, Rihanna’s actually singing here, full voice and powerful.
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AMBER ROSE WRITES ABOUT HOW TO STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK ON TIMES MAGAZINE
Following Kanye West’s tweets where he called ex-girlfriend Amber Rose a stripper, the model and mum of one has written an op-ed piece for Time Magazine talking about how she learned to stop caring what people think of her.
Read her article below.
Ever since high school, I’ve been called a slut. All the boys were attracted to me—that wasn’t my fault! Then, when I started getting famous, the shaming got even worse. All these messed up stories came out about me, and I was like, “That’s not true! I’m not that kind of girl!” But even things I had done—things a man would never be judged for—got me lots of hate.
After my ex-husband Wiz Khalifa and I got a divorce, I’d go out for a date at a restaurant like any normal single human and people would say, “Man, she’s such a ho. She’s out at restaurants with guys.” Then they would see my ex-husband with a bunch of women. They would say, “He’s the man! That’s so cool.” So when I went on a date, I’m a whore, and when he’s piling girls in a car, he’s the man? There’s something wrong here.
It wasn’t just men saying these types of things. There were a lot of women saying hateful things to me. I was getting torn down constantly. But in the past year, I’ve just started not caring.
People would actually say things like, “Who would ever love you? You were a stripper. Why are you in relationships?” And I used to feel like I had to explain that maybe it was because I’m a good person.
But I realized that I can’t make everyone believe. And I can’t talk to everyone and tell them who I really am. They’re still going to have their own opinions. If you know me, you love me. If you don’t know me, you might love me, but you might not—and that’s cool. And you know what? Now I sleep like a baby at night.
It wasn’t even that hard to stop caring what other people thought. I wasn’t married, and I didn’t have a boyfriend so I didn’t have to care about anyone else’s feelings or protect anyone’s heart. I thought, “This is my life. This is about me. If you don’t like it, I don’t care. I’m going to do anything and everything I want with my own life.”
What I’ve realized is that, when you care too much, you’re not living at your full potential. When you really stop caring about what people say, that’s when you really start living. It’s such an amazing feeling. It’s about loving who you are, owning who you are and knowing that it’s O.K. to live your life how you want to live it. We’re all human, which means we’re not all perfect. It’s so cool to think that I might help women think about who they want to be and then encourage them to be that person with no remorse. I want to help women just be happy in their own skin.
So please: Before you judge someone—especially another woman—put yourself in her shoes and also look at your past. That’s what a lot of women fail to do. They’re so quick to call another girl names, but it’s like: You know what? There may have been a time where you looked back and said, “I probably shouldn’t have done that.” Does that make you a ho? No, it makes you a human.
Saturday, 23 January 2016
CELINE DION LAYS HER HUSBAND TO REST
Celine Dion laid her late husband Rene Angelil to rest yesterday, Friday 22nd of January at Notre-Dame Basilica in Montreal, Canada.
She attended the funeral with her three children – Rene-Charles, 14, and five-year-old twins Nelson and Eddy – and they stood in front of the casket outside of the church for several minutes until the bells rung and it was placed in the hearse.
14-year-old Rene Charles gave an emotional eulogy at the ceremony. He said “Fifteen years is not a long time for a son to get to know his father. You had a busy life, but we were communicating through golf, hockey, poker, and smoked meat. And a lot of other wonderful food. Bonding more and more as time went by. You left me now with enough good memories of you to share with my younger brothers. As they grow older without you being around, I’ll make sure to pass on what I’ve learned from you. You are a tough act to follow, but with your help everything is going to be fine. Dad, I promise you here that we are all going to live up to your standards.”
See some photos below.
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